Jour de Fête
by mimithorisson
Choices, choices
On the last Saturday in July I was standing behind a table lined with rows of vegetable tarts and meringues, little delights that I had made and was now meaning to SELL! “How utterly odd” I thought to myself, after years and years of going to markets, buying delights, to be at the opposite side of the table presenting people with my own little creations. And how fun! Growing up this was not really a scene I could have imagined, nor was having 7 kids, countless dogs or basically anything that’s happening in my life today, including writing a cookbook. I was recently reminded of how unpredictable life is, how the wars we prepare for are not necessarily the wars we fight. This reminder came from an unlikely and, frankly, a rather unwelcome source – but it did serve its purpose, at least I am writing about it now. Some person left a comment on one of my instagram photos, one where I am coming out of a pastry shop with my two daughters and a dog in tow. It’s a beautiful green storefront with the most sumptuous pastries on display and I’d like to think we all look very content. The comment (which I deleted – but now sort of regret having done that) said something along the lines of this: “You promote childbirth and cooking but women should be in boardrooms making important decisions as CEO’s”. One has to wonder if the commentator thinks that CEO’s never buy pastries, even on weekends, or perhaps that they don’t have children. Maybe just that they’d look miserable buying strawberry cakes with their kids because they’d much rather be … in the boardroom. I suppose a top CEO would have a nanny, and a personal assistant for buying pastries but let me go on record and say that even if I was the president of France I would still buy my own pastries. My life was always filled with food and cooking but being practical I did actually prepare myself for the boardroom. I studied business and finance, I worked in business development. I am quite sure that had I persisted I might even have made it to the boardroom. Now I am not saying that there is anything wrong with the boardroom, it’s a perfectly acceptable room. No worse in fact than the kitchen, the little shop, the atelier, the classroom or any other room I can think of. I guess what I am getting at, is that this little comment reminded me of how grateful I am to have had a choice. A choice that my grandmother and great-grandmother perhaps didn’t have. They were never destined for the boardroom, they didn’t get the chance to choose. Choice is freedom. Finding something you like to do, something you are, hopefully, reasonably good at and then having the chance to do it – that is the path to a good life, the path to happiness even. So to the person who left that comment I’d like to say this: “I understand where you are coming from, thanks for the input – but your comment would have been more appreciated had it been less aggressive and more polite. Sometimes it’s not what you say but how you say it.”
p.s. Since I am opening a little table d’hôtes/ chambres d’hôtes, with cooking workshops etc I guess I am technically the CEO of that operation. I will still be buying my own pastries though.
Meringues at midnight
I had originally planned to make duck burgers for my stand at the Fête de village in St Christoly. But there wasn’t enough time and we didn’t really have the facilities to fry burgers at the square. Next time! This time I just wanted to make something light and tasty that everyone likes and could be made in advance. Tian tartlets seemed to fit the bill, all the ingredients are in season, they are easy to make, lovely to look at and so tasty with a sprinkle of salt and olive oil. The real challenge was making a hundred meringues with one oven. Meringues take more than an hour to cook and as I wanted them as fresh as possible most of the“meringuing” happened after midnight on Friday night and then in the early hours of Saturday. The whole family helped out (some more and others) slicing vegetables, carefully arranging them on top of the tarts. Thorir went on an excursion deep into the forest to gather bunches of fern that we meant to decorate our table with. When we decided not to use them (mainly because we ran out of time) he contemplated selling them but as Médoc woods are 50% covered in fern he realized there wasn’t really a market for it. We had a small worry that all our efforts would be in vain, what if nobody wanted tian tarts and meringues, especially since they were waiting for duck burgers. The small queue that waited for us when we arrived was most encouraging and I am happy to report that everything we had sold in under two hours. We had our share of little mishaps, I sprayed creme chantilly over a woman who was very gracious about it and Louise fell and got herself a bloody nose, her first ever.
In the end we ran out of cream, out of sauce, so we started giving the meringues for free. The two tian tarts we gave to a lovely couple, readers of the blog who had come all the way from Bordeaux to have duck burgers. Hudson and Louise, ever competitive, were mesmerized by all the money that we put into an old biscuit box. Hudson even embarrassed me by counting it from time to time in front of everybody. The best thing about that box though was taking money out of it and using it to buy food from all the other stands around us. We had the tastiest duck sausages from one stand, Moroccan biscuits from another. Oddur bought some wine, the kids some candies. I can’t think of a more fabulous, old-fashioned experience than staying up late, making little “plats”, then taking your efforts to the market and trying out what the others have to offer. It is country life at it’s best.
I love writing this blog, cooking and communicating, reading your comments and answering them. But meeting people face to face, your neighbours, some readers of Manger, old faces, new faces – that’s even better. That’s what I hope to achieve with my cooking workshops. Meeting people, enjoying food, sharing stories. I may be going out on a limb here, and we are behind schedule, but I am determined to get started with the workshops later this year. All roads lead to St. Yzans.
That Saturday night, exhausted but happy, I made an old-fashioned veal roast with summer vegetables. It wasn’t supposed to be a blog post, it was just something I wanted to make and thought could be delicious. Hudson kept asking me how big his share of the proceeds would be. “Gunnhildur did the most” I said, “So don’t you think it’s fair she gets the biggest share?” I asked. He wasn’t sure about that. In the end we settled it all amicably. Bigger efforts got bigger rewards. That box still stands on a shelf in my bedroom. It’s empty now but for a cheque of 12 euros that someone used to pay for meringues and tarts. I think I’ll keep it as a souvenir of a good day. Sometimes a cheque is worth more than the number that’s written on it.
Tian tartlets (for eight tartlets)
These pretty and rustic tartlets look like small bouquets, perfumed with thyme and bay leaves. the trick is to slice the vegetables as thinly as possible to create a pretty tartlet.
230 g/ 8 ounces x 2 shortcrust pastry/pate brisée
1 small eggplant/ aubergine, sliced finely
1 zucchini/ courgette, sliced finely
2 tomatoes, sliced finely
2 cloves garlic, sliced finely
A few springs of fresh thyme, leaves picked
Olive oil
Coarse sea-salt & freshly ground black pepper
Preheat oven to 200°C/395°f.
Grease with butter 10 cm/4 inches wide tartlet pans x 8
Use pastry to line base and sides of tartlet pan. Trim excess pastry. Using a fork, pierce pastry base.
Slice zucchini, aubergine , tomato and garlic finely. Line slices alternating zucchini/aubergine/tomato to create a rose-like pattern until you reach the center. Slide in 4 garlic slices between the vegetable slices. Drizzle with olive oil all over, sprinkle salt, black pepper, fresh thyme and 1 small bay leaf (see photo).
Bake in the preheated oven for 20 to 25 minutes or until vegetables are golden. Leave to cool for 5 minutes before unmoulding.
Old-fashioned summer veal roast
This delightful summer veal roast is so easy to prepare and has become a family favorite for dinner. The tomatoes stand out in this recipe, and the sauce mixed the vegetables and pancetta is heavenly with mashed potatoes.
1.3 kg /2.8 pounds veal shoulder roast(preferably with bone, but rolled is good too)
60 g/ 4 tablespoons unsalted butter
2 onions, sliced
230 g/ 8 ounces pancetta, sliced finely into matchstick size
2 cups/500 ml dry white wine
80 ml/ 1/3 cup veal stock
3 small carrots, sliced finely
4 garlic cloves, unpeeled
2 celery branches, sliced finely
15 plum tomatoes
1 bouquet garni
Coarse sea-salt & freshly ground black pepper
Preheat the oven to 160°C/ 320°F
In a large cast-iron dutch oven/cocotte, melt the butter and sauté the onions until soft but not browned. Add the pancetta and continue to sauté for 3 minutes, then add the veal and brown the meat on all sides. Add the carrots and celery, season with salt and pepper, and throw in the bouquet garni. Pour the wine and mix all the ingredients together. Bring to a simmer, add the tomatoes, veal stock & unpeeled garlic cloves. Cover the pot.
Transfer the dutch oven/ cocotte into the oven and cook for 1 hour and thirty minutes to 2 hours, until cooked through and tender. Cut the veal into slices. Serve with mashed potatoes and pour the gravy with vegetables on top.
Vanilla meringues with peaches & cream
Simply irresistible – this dessert literally sold out within minutes!
For the meringues
(for approximately 8 meringues)
6 egg whites (at room temperature)
260 g/ 1 1 1/3 cup caster sugar
50 g/ ½ cup icing sugar
1 teaspoon cornstarch (maïzana)
½ teaspoon vanilla essence
A pinch of salt
For the ultra-easy coulis
For the raspberry
230 g/ 8 ounces raspberry, 3 tablespoons granulated sugar. Blend together in a mixer.
For the apricot
230g/ 8 ounces apricots, 3 tablespoons granulated sugar. Combine pitted apricots with the sugar in a small saucepan. Heat on a medium heat until they are soft and the sugar is melted. Process in a mixer and leave to cool before serving.
To garnish:
1 cup/ 250 ml heavy cream, for whipping
8 yellow or white peaches (count 1 peach per person) – peeled and sliced
Pre-heat your oven 140°C/280°F.
In a large glass bowl, whisk the egg whites on a high-speed until frothy. Add the cornstarch, pinch of salt and sugar/ confectioner’s sugar (1-2 tbsp at a time) gradually. Add the vanilla essence. Continue to whisk until stiff and glossy. Transfer mixture to a piping bag and pipe meringues (about the size of a medium-sized orange) on a parchment paper-lined baking sheet. Bake in a preheated oven 140°C/280 F for 25 minutes, then lower heat 95°C/200 F and continue to bake for 1 hour (2 hours if you prefer them slightly crunchier). Switch the heat off and open the oven door. Leave the meringues to cool in the oven. When the meringues are completely cooled, whisk the cream in a large bowl until stiff. To serve, tap the meringues to create a little nest, add a few spoons of whipped cream, scatter the sliced peaches on top and drizzle with the coulis.
Love the photos, atmosphere and recipes!
so inspiring!
Merci! Have a lovely week-end and enjoy the recipes 🙂 Mimi x
Mimi,
It looks like y’all had such a wonderful time! Everything you made looks absolutely divine.
As a woman who turned down a position at NASA to pursue a career in the kitchen, I completely agree that life takes you places you never thought it would whenever you follow your heart, darlin’! So proud of you…
x
Amber
Hello Amber! Wow Nasa – isn’t life amusing, taking you to so many surprising places? I am glad you pursued your career in the kitchen 🙂 You do it beautifully! Mimix
Mimi,
Thank you so much! That means so much coming from you!
x
Amber
I’m not one to leave comments often, but I must say this was The Best you have ever done!!!! Love It !!! so fun to see a beautiful family having a wonderful time!!!! Keep it Up! Bravo!
Oh merci Ann! It was a lovely day – I loved meeting so many interesting people that day! We will do another fête soon next month 🙂 Bon week-end, Mimi x
I WAS in the Boardroom, now I choose the kitchen. In life you are always exactly where you are supposed to be.
Look forward to your Cooking workshop.
I totally agree – life takes you to the most unexected places 🙂 Hope to meet you soon Margaret! Mimix
What’s wrong with childbirth and cooking? Surely everyone has to eat – and without children to carry on boardrooms are a waste of time.
Hi Nic, that’s true and you know what they say – the children are the future:) Mimi x
I get bored in a board room!! It’s our choice to do what we do and we love doing it. You love what you do and you do it beautifully! I am glad your fete went well minus a couple of minor mishaps. I would love to come to your shop and cooking class and will put that on my bucket list. And the peaches reminds me of the peaches I have here…gorgeous and ready to eat. Big hugs xo
Hi Mel, Oh the fête was wonderful and I will certainly keep you posted on any developments regarding the workshops. We are making big advances this week and I hope that the works will really get started at the end of the month, after that we have to see how fast things go 🙂 Mimix
Mimi,
What you promote is serenity, beauty, energy, and contentment. Regardless of gender, things don’t get better than that.
There will always be people out there with agendas, quite convinced that they know how the rest of the world should live. If I were to write what I think of them, THIS post would be deleted, too.
Feel free to change NOTHING about yourself and your blog.
Thank you, as always, for a fantastic article.
Joachim
Thank you Joe for your very kind and uplifting words, I’ve been very lucky and had such few negative comments. That one didn’t particularly get to me but it made me want to discuss things and I am so very pleased and happy to see how many of you have joined in the conversation. Merci, Mimi x
Not sure what could be more fulfilling than growing children but I sense a bit of jealousy in the comments mentioned in your post. I am a longtime reader of your blog which is something I can’t say about many others. It is beautifully photographed and the food is magnifique! Looking forward to adding your new book to my collection.
That’s exactly what I wanted to write 🙂 Great post & shots – like always chez Mimi 🙂 xxx
Merci Marta 🙂 Mimi x
Merci Fanny 🙂 Mimi x p.s. I am so looking forward to the book too, any day now and I’ll have the first copy in my hands.
I love what you’ve written so fiercely, Mimi. It becomes so strange when women who follow their hearts to a more “traditional” role find themselves having to justify not wanting to pursue those boardroom ambitions — I think you’ve identified so articulately that what we strive for in this thing called feminism is the freedom and beauty of having a choice, not pressure for all of us to follow a certain, new path just because we weren’t able to before. It’s not being a mother and a homemaker that is negative, it was the restriction to not be able to do anything else.
Anyway, more importantly, so happy for you and this gorgeous booth! The meringues and the tartlets (and everything else) are just sublime as always. Thank you so much for your gorgeous food, for thought and for everything in between 🙂
Great and exact point, Cynthia! It’s about having a freedom of choice, and not being questioned about it.
Beautiful post about surely beautiful day (and hard-working night before! :D). dear Mimi. I actualy remember that what brought me first time to Manger were your meringues. I was mesmerized by a pictures of them I found somewhere, and I looked for the source. Love at first sight! 🙂
Can’t get enough of Meringes Maja, simply can’t 🙂 Mimi x
Merci Cynthia, it makes me truly happy to hear from all of you and judging from your comment you and many others seem to have perfectly understood what I meant to say, I was slightly worried that I wasn’t being clear enough. Phew 🙂 Mimi x p.s. I really could have those peach meringues every day!
Actually I feel pity for that POOR woman who left the sour comment – and applaud you for the gift of life and love you have chosen. Raising the next generation to be productive, functional adults is a huge ‘job’ compared to running a ‘successful-in-the-world’s-eyes’ company. Still dreaming of being a part of your workshop one day – off to make tian tartlets in the meantime!!
Thank you and hopefully you WILL be part of the workshops soon, I’ll keep you posted. Mimi x
This is all so lovely.. the simplicity of the dishes, the freshness of the ingredients, the smiles …beautiful!!
As for the comment you remarked on, earlier on in your post on instagram..I just believe..we all get too judgemental in life.. life is about making choices, whatever that maybe , that make you happy because when you are at peace with yourself, you’ll make everyone around you happier!! Just my little thought…
So true, Merci Sarvani 🙂 Mimi x
Stunning photos, creative recipes and a spot-on response to a thoughtless comment. Your blog is always loving and inspirational.
Merci Anne, Mimi x
Mimi, I agree with Ann. A simply beautiful post! Thank you!
Merci Sandy, Mimi x
Mimi, Your blog in inspiring and beautiful. You share your life and family with passion and wonderful pictures. Always feels like I stopped by for a visit. Thanks so much!
Hi Diane, It makes me happy that you should describe it that way. A little visit and you left a note 🙂 Mimi x
Hello Mimi, quelle joie de t’avoir retrouvée devant ton stand magnifiquement décoré avec tes beaux enfants et avec toutes ces jolies choses colorées et appétissantes à déguster. Bravo encore pour tes envoûtantes comptines. Merci Oddur pour tes sublimes photos immortalisant le bonheur et la joie de vivre. Vivement l’ouverture de tes nouveaux ateliers et à très bientôt. Gros bisous à toute la tribu.
Anne-Marie
P.S. N’oublie pas de nous prévenir pour la date de la prochaine fête !
Coucou Anne-Marie! vous étiez si jolie dans votre robe rouge 🙂 Avez-vous remarqué que vous étiez sur la photo derrière le stand du salon de thé Artemis? Je pense qu’il y aura une autre fête fin août/début Septembre. Je vous embrasse et un grand bonjour de la part des enfants! Mimi x
Coucou mimi, c’est formidable de répondre aussi spontanément et gentiment à nous tous, quel boulot ! Oui bien sûr j’avais repéré la photo devant le stand d’artemis mais je n’ai pas osé y faire allusion sur le blog et vous remercie tous les deux pour cette gentille attention. J’espère que tout va bien pour vous , que les travaux avancent et que les enfants profitent bien des vacances, je les embrasse bien fort, il me tarde de les revoir avant la rentrée. Audrey May a dû bien changer. Gros bisous à bientôt. Anne-Marie xx
This is a beautiful blog you have here! I came across your story in Vogue magazine and had to take a peek! I too love cooking, photography, traveling and French culture, so this is perfect to me : ). I’ve been in a cooking rut lately and needed new recipes to liven up the routine! And btw, I don’t think there is anything wrong with buying pastries, cooking and taking care of your children. Women are given the freedom of choice these days, and if that is what they choose, then more power to them because being a Mother is too often overlooked, and yet it is such a selfless duty that lacks much recognition or praise in our society today. The people who criticize must be unhappy with their own lives and must be so busy that they cannot buy their own pastries, now that’s a shame! Keep doing what you are doing, I believe it inspires other women such as myself.
J’aurais adorée t’achetée 4 tartelettes ! Deux pour mes enfants et 2 pour mon mari et moi! J’ai beaucoup aimé l’atmosphère qui dégage cette petite fête 😉
Audrey Mai a grandi beaucoup, elle est si mignonne !
Merci Eva! Comment se déroulent vos vacances en Espagne? Il y aura d’autres fêtes – nous avons tous passé de bons moments. Nous revenons de San Sebastian, que de bonnes choses à manger! A bientôt, Mimi x
Les vacances en Espagne sont fini depuis hier. Maintenant en est dans le midi de la France, dans la montagne Noire, plein des choses à découvrir!
J’ai envie d’aller à San Sébastian un de ces jours, il pareil qu’on mange tellement bien!!
Merci Mimi et peut être à une prochaine fête dans le Médoc!
Incroyable..de laisser un tel commentaire~
C’est une question d’envie.
Elle envie tout ce que vous avez.
C’est vous la plus riche.
That baby in white so cool looking w/ little legs ..beautiful as are all the children.
Wonderful genes.
I love that you are so appreciative of everything you have.
Grasp it firmly with both hands and never let go.
Il n’y a rien au monde comme notre famille.
Merci Monique! L’important, c’est de bien s’expliquer, de se faire comprendre – inutile de se fâcher! C’est fantastique que nous puissons avoir le choix de nos décisions – pour moi, c’est ma famille et la cuisine 🙂 Ma petite Audrey may se porte bien, elle grandit si vite! Profitez bien de l’été! Mimi x
When will you open your d’hôtes/ chambres d’hôtes? Medoc was my favourite and would love to go back.
Hi Hayley, We are starting works this month and believe me I am eager to start, I will keep you and everyone else who is interested as up to date as is possible. Hope to see you soon! Mimi x
Just beautiful. I love your blog. Would love to visit some day.
Merci Carolyn, you should visit some day 🙂 Mimi x
Every blog post you write, food you prepare, and picture you take are manifestations of your true nature. I am hard pressed to think of another blogger who is as genuine and unpretentious as you. As a long-time reader, it seems clear to me that you are living the life you *want *to live. You and your family are inspiring and…just lovely.
Hi Amy, it is the life I want but I didn’t always know that. It is humbling to hear from so many of you that what I have done with my life, at least in some small way, inspires you. So many people have inspired me in my life and it feels good to pay some of it back. Mimi x
YOU are the CEO of everything you do!Please try and forgot that ugly comment and you did right by making it vanish!That comment came from pure jealousy!!!You can read it in the words……YOU have a beautiful life with beautiful children and a Husband who ADORES YOU.I love how he calls YOU HER on his IN.Love how the children helped collect ferns and counted the profits!THis is what its all about….FAMILY.You my dear have the recipe down pat.Don’t change a thing.Waiting for that cookbook!!!Making MIMI chicken Sunday for guests the one with the creme fraiche!XOXOXOXO
La Contessa your comments are so spot on!!!!!! Perfectly put!!!!!
Yes, that would be the perfect riposte wouldn’t it?! I am the CEO of my own life and the HQ just happens to be at my home address where I am working most days in the board room (atelier/studio/kitchen/office) or rather playing actually because what I do every day I do with passion and love and therefore it’s hard to call it work per se.
Besides, what’s so wonderful about being the CEO of a corporation? A lot of what is wrong in today’s world could be traced back to corporate practices… Small, preferably local, family owned businesses is where we should strive to spend our hard earned money. It’s wonderful that you chose to do what makes you happy, Mimi. YOU go, sister!!!
Dena, Yamilka, Mary 🙂 Mimi x
Hello Dear Contessa, Now it’s Monday night and I am making the crème fraîche chicken myself. And who for, my dear Aunt Francine (taty) who was such an inspiration to me as a little girl when it came to cooking. As I said in the acknowledgements of my book – I might never have started to cook without her. Such a pleasure to have her around these days but sadly she’s leaving tomorrow. As I said to a reader earlier, that comment didn’t bother me that much but I felt it was a worthy topic nonetheless. It’s always the best way isn’t it, to try to discuss thing intelligently rather than type them down anonymously in some sneaky corner. Yes, family is BEST! Mimi x p.s. hope the chicken was alright 🙂
JUST PERFECT!
LIKE YOU!
XOXOX
Mimi please dont worry and be you only Iove your blog how is and is like you:
Beautiful!
Im agree with Contessa !:))
And your posts always make me happy:)
Your Farmer’s Market stand of gourmet delights looks so fun and delicious! Your little girls with the darling matching dresses ( I had that two with my sister, home made from my Mom). I like that you include pictures of your charming, like the sweet nuns.
In my own life I work a challenging executive job yet I love making jam, gardening and cooking and simple life pleasures. Thank Goodness!
Your blog is so wonderful inspiring, thank you.
Thank you for your kind words Sarah, it was all very fun. And of course there is more to all of us than just the job we do for a living – that was one of the points I was trying to make. Executives do make jams don’t they! Mimi x
Thank you so much for sharing your insights in your first paragraph. I have always tried to teach my daughters to become self-sufficient and responsible using their full potential. Yet, being happy, and doing something you care about is paramount. Thank you again for your perspective. (I did share this with my girls!) P.S. I never have been to France, hope to visit your beautiful area someday!
Hi Sylvia, You simply must come to France soon and of course include Médoc in your trip. We have five daughters and what you said is very much along the lines of what we try to install in them. Of course most of them are so young still that they don’t really understand but then you are never too young to listen to a few well spoken words of wisdom. Mimi x
I loved this post so much! It could be because I’m in a state of euphoria since I finally had my baby gir too, but I think It’s more so because I have that exact feeling of, “how did I get here? Doesn’t matter because it’s perfect!” So excited to try these recipes too. They sound devine to a hungry momma 🙂
Congratulations!!! I know all about being a hungry mom 🙂 So happy for you and thank you for this and all the other comments. Here’s to ending up in the “right” place. Love Mimi x
Such sweet pictures. Those little tartlets look so cute!
Not every woman is the boardroom type, and not every room is the pastry-making mom type, and that’s ok! I say celebrate the differences! Women need to stop judging each other & share the love.
{Teffy’s Perks} X
Here’s to love and tolerance in any shape or form, Merci Teffy Mimi x
You are the CEO of your family and as important as any boardroom CEO. Your posts bring a sense of serenity and love to us the readers, a rare commodity in this day and age. Thank you.
Thank you Manena 🙂 Mimi x
You have nothing to apologize for. Every time I read your post I am in awe of your industriousness. Life is long. You are young. Who knows what business enterprises might lie ahead of you. You’re just getting your “business feet” wet, again. I wish for you much success, a lot of luck, and the good fortune to take advantage of the luck when it comes your way.
Luck is very important, as is the willingness to embrace it when it lands on your doorstep. Merci Mimi x
Mimi, your talent enriches all of our lives. You are a renaissance woman who inspires me, one of the ones who chose the Boardroom yet marvels at the gifts that each and every woman has.
Thank you Susan, I hope I am a little bit of a Renaissance woman, always liked that term. But some people just call it being bad at many things ha ha 🙂 Mimi x
Simply beautiful! I am going to have to try those meringues this week.. xo from California!
You must! I mean it! Mimi x
je suis en admiration devant tout ce que vous faites , et je trouve que vous etes une jeunne femme extraordinaire, qui aime les bonnes choses et qui surtout a le desir d en faire profiter toutes les personnes autour d elle.Vous avez une petite famille adorable et les photos de votre mari sont superbes. Mais malheureusement je ne lis pas l anglais couramment!!!!
Mimi, as so many have said, your pages give inspiration and pleasure to your readers. Your internet friends come visit you precisely because you have chosen this charming path of family and a life dedicated to the highest human values. The world has too many boardrooms and not enough charm!
Perhaps you have heard of Janne Matlary, the former Minister of Foreign affairs for Norway….and a woman who has been in many board rooms on various high level subjects from European defense to petroleum development to emerging forms of government. She has four children and wrote about the need to “fight for political and social recognition of the importance of motherhood, which in my experience is the most important form of work, and one specific to women.” Mimi, at heart we all know why boardrooms exist– to solve problems and devise programs or policies that lead to a more secure life so that we can go home to our families and the pleasures in our communities. If all the talented competent women are in boardrooms, rather than homes, schools, floral shops, restaurants, markets….there will be no charming homes and communities to return to once the board meeting is over. What a sad, sterile vision that would be. You have chosen well, rejoice in your wise choice, do not let that an envious woman tarnish your happiness. And …Baby Audrey is gorgeous!!
She IS gorgeous MJ, really is. Thank you for your very interesting comment. I wasn’t familiar with Janne Matlary but she sounds wise. Mimi x
Merci cher Nicolas – je suis si touchée par votre commentaire! Oui, l’important c’est de suivre ses passions, de partager tout avec bonheur! Bel été à vous, Mimi x
j ai envoyé un petit commentaire car je suis une amie de Francine , et que c est par elle que j ai connu votre site… Continuez ainsi , c est super de transmettre tout ceci … Bonnes vacances a vous tous. Desolée de ne pas tout comprendre….
Mon dieu!
I cringed when I read what the person wrote to you. Perhaps it was just sour grapes? I appreciate all you do, and feel fortunate to have a glimpse into your life. It is very generous of you to share with the world the way you do.
It’s my pleasure and it enriches my life to be able to communicate with all of you. Merci Michelle, Mimi x
Amen Mimi – you go girl! I love your blog and Insta feed. I am a wife, mother, gardener, homemaker and software trainer. You can guess which parts of my life bring the most joy. I will always buy my own pastries too.
And Amen to you Linda, Merci Mimi x
Hey Mrs. CEO, one can’t be everything to everyone. I’ve come across some negative comments in the past few years too. Sometimes people are jealous and sometimes people (mostly 13yr olds) are angry because I have the same name as a favourite YA author and she killed off her heroine in her last book. It seems like the more popular one gets, the more people feel like they have a right, an investment, or perhaps part ownership in one’s life. Oh well, what can you do except live your life to make yourself and your family happy and fulfilled…and full of yummy goodness. I love meringues! This July, meringues and fruit and creme fraiche was my “birthday cake”, and it was the best ever. Big hugs to you, all 7, and especially Audrey; who is growing so fast! 😀
Hi Veronica, Gunnhildur our 18 year old was not too happy about that death either, for a brief moment, while reading the comments, she made the same mistake. Your birthday cake sounds amazing – a birthday cake should be exactly what one craves – it sounds like you got what you wanted. Mimi x
As always, a wonderful post. But Audrey May made it special for me.
Thanks
She makes it special for me too 🙂 Mimi x
What a little beauty!
About the instagram comment, there’s so much judging going on lately (maybe it’s always been there?) but I think that often those kind of remarks are a reflection on the commenter’s inner challenges. Instead of basking in the joy of beautiful photos/words, they find solace in criticism to make themselves feel better.
Anyway, your meringues sound perfect, especially with the coulis. Like miniature fantasy islands. Bon weekend, Mimi!
Hi Linda, the web is a remarkable tool that can be used in so many innovative ways. But we are still in the early stages and maybe one day people will realize that all communication requires a certain amount of politeness and sensitivity. We can’t just all be polite and proper in person and then lash out anonymously on the internet. Not a lot of elegance in that. Mimi x
I’m totally in love with your blog and style of the photos!
Thank you Tania, your support is most appreciated. My husband takes the photos by the way and I feel the same. Mimi x
Dear Mimi, I’ve been reading your blog for a long time but this is the first time I’ve made a comment.
I think anyone who does what they love and do well deserves respect and encouragement, whether it is in the boardroom or kitchen. I was very touched by your words.
Thank you Shirley! Mimi x
You are a beautiful woman inside and out. I look forward to each post because of your inspiration, creativity and and joy for life. The person who made a judge mental post is obviously unhappy in her own life. you, are obviously happy in yours. Thank you for your uplifting posts.
You are welcome, it’s such a pleasure for me to do these posts, I always feel very excited when I’m about to publish a new one and all your comments make it so worth while. Merci, Mimi x
Bonjour Mimi! I think it’s wonderful how you so elegantly responded to the comment from whomever posted it on Instagram. I think your blog, your story, and your passion for the way you and your family live, eat, and enjoy life is not only inspiring, but beautiful. Being the CEO of a boardroom is great, fabulous, and wonderful for the person that wants to pursue that type of life. But choosing family, food, and beautiful life experiences are just as wonderful and beautiful. I think people looking to criticize may just be unhappy with their own lives or jealous of yours, either way, that’s none of your concern. Continue inspiring us through your words and delicious recipes. I know your workshops are going to be phenomenal and I can’t wait to attend. I’d hoped that I would be able to make it to France just for your workshop this fall, but unfortunately, I have to have surgery later this month and will not be able to fly (even for work, which I do weekly) for about 2 months. I assure you, I will definitely be in attendance next year!!! 🙂 Please know and remember always that you are AMAZING! You have touched the lives of many women around the world and showed us that being domestic is beautiful, chic, fabulous, and so beautifully rewarding!!! xoxo, Dana
There are so many different ways to have a beautiful life and we each have to find your own. I’ll reserve a place for you next year and wish you all the best for your surgery, thank you for your kind words Mimi x
I really liked this “the wars we prepare for are not necessarily the wars we fight.” How true! Life is full of surprises 🙂
It is, and when you think you’ve got it all (or most of it) figured out, life throws you a big surprise. Funnily enough when I wrote that I thought it was pretty good and wondered if I had read it somewhere else first. Google doesn’t seem to recognize it so maybe it’s mine. But how very true indeed. Mimi x
Yum! And what did you do with all of the egg yolks?
I can think of a thousand things, eggs are after all my favorite ingredient. But my husband often nicks them and gives them to the dogs. In this house dogs are royalty. Mimi x
Love your blog. How dare anyone diss a woman who is able to stay home and raise her children. Seriously, if you are going to have children, why would you want anyone else to raise them for you. You are amazing just the way you are, and I can’t wait to see the progress on the new home. Your “plate” is wonderfully full.
Thank you Mary, I do love spending time with the kids, those are the very best moments. Mimi x
As someone a few short weeks away from expecting her first child, who works full days managing a team at a tech company and then comes home to enjoy the indulgence of cooking, can I just say you’re a lovely inspiration when it comes to choice.
You articulated choice well. It’s not what’s more valuable — my (enjoyable) role at the company or my time enjoying fussing over the perfect meal last night. It’s happiness and fulfillment. And I personally want the choice to change my mind or my road whenever I stumble upon a new happiness — be that in the kitchen, with my family, in my career or some other yet-undiscovered adventure. I want that choice for my daughter as well. And for the men in my life.
Bravo for living authentically. We can only ever live vibrantly when we are being true. I think you are a great example of that.
Veronica, I absolutely agree with you. It’s not only being able to choose that’s important, it’s also important to realize that you can choose again. Having the guts to change your mind can be key. Good luck with your baby, Mimi x
Mimi,
Congratulations on your market debut! I’ve followed your IG account for some time but this is my first blog visit, and I am hooked 🙂 I cannot wait to get my hands on the cookbook as well.
I spent several years in a corporate boardroom (eating mediocre, often subpar, sandwiches for lunch as everyone’s eyes glazed over endless PowerPoint presentations). But now I am quite content being CEO of my kitchen and nourishing my family with yummy eats. Bravo to the choices you get to make, and have made.
The tian tartlets look divine. Like a two-bite ratatouille gratin piece of heaven. Can’t wait to try making it.
Cheers
Cheryl
IG: eurocheryl
Hi Cheryl, So happy to have you over on the blog. That’s what the tartlets really are, but perhaps three-bite, well it depends. Mimi x
PS: I’m heading across the pond next week, to Switzerland and also a cottage near Dijon. So looking forward to all the marvelous food and photo ops.
I’m sure you’ll have a lot of fun, a cottage sounds great 🙂
Wonderful post and allows for me to see another side of the world. Love the pic of your German wirehaired, wonderful breed.
Hi, that one is not ours but I agree with you, they are adorable. We have a shorthaired German pointer who is the most amazing dog anyone could have. Maybe one day we’ll have a wirehaired. Glad you enjoyed the post, Mimi x
Dear Mimi, you are your own CEO! Und das ist wunderbar so…und es ist für mich immer eine Freude und Inspiration “manger” zu lesen und anzuschauen. So even you can’t read German, be sure – a big compliment and a big hugh from Stuttgart! Hilde Frey
Hi Hilde, I don’t speak German but my husbands speaks a bit (one of his grandmothers was German) and Freude is easy to understand. Vielen dank, Mimi x
First, an enchanting beach adventure dressed with fruit and octopus. Then, a rich and colorful market filled with family and fun. Every time I visit your blog I end up with a smile upon my face. I am not surprised that your treats sold out fast. I could almost taste their rich succulent texture all the way in the United States behind this cold computer. I WILL make it to your area soon to partake as it is on my list! Also, what a treat to see baby Audrey’s sweet and beautiful face. What an angel ^_^!!! Your family is so beyond precious. Even the little bumps and bruises (poor Louise 🙁 ) and tiny arguments lead to cherished memories.
Oh, this bring me back to the open markets of Charleston, South Carolina growing up amongst home made cakes, overflowing carts of fresh seafood, and freshly cut flowers bursting out of their baskets. Not to mention fighting with my sister over who got the bigger Praline (our sweet treat in the South) Those fights were serious. I wanted the perfect Praline darn it! (as I am sure you can relate) Haha such pleasant memories all pricelessly valued. The perfect example of what your family has experienced here.
Family….you can’t put a price on that. You can’t put a price on love. At the end of all things, that is what this is all about.
I could think of no better career than being CEO of your hopes, your dreams, and your family!
May all negativity from any source run off of you like water upon a ducks back
(My mother said this to me often growing up! ) because you, with a sharp mind, a strong will, and a warm and open heart will always be triumphant in the end.
For the record, your instagram spreads joy all over the world and your positive and honest outlook upon life inspires me to paint. I’ll be opening my own business this fall full of hand painted beauties. All because I myself have decided to be CEO of my hopes and dreams and the profit from that exceeds monetary value.
Sincerely,
Tiffany
I am sorry this comment was so long >_< ah!
I love your long comments Tiffany so don’t worry about that. Thank you for all your kind words. It’s funny to hear about you and your sister. You see I was an only child and never knew what it was like to have a sister to love and compete with. Sometimes I find the kids getting too competitive with each other but I guess that’s just normal … right 🙂 Mimi x
What an incredibly stupid comment to make. This person has basically understood nothing, or as you’ve assumed, the person is frustrated and bitter. You’re not promoting anything, but even if you would. The best part of having equal rights is exactly what you’ve said, we have the freedom of choice. To be and to do what we want. How great is that. But people get so frustated, when their predjudices do not get not fullfilled. I had many of these discussions myself, about how to live as a cripple. It is ridiculous. Today I am mostly at peace with such situations. It seems some people get actually scared, by the freedom of choice, and I’ve decided a long time ago, maybe we can help them to lose that fear, by doing what we love most. Your blog is nothing but beautiful and filled with passion. What greater gift could one make to the world, but to share what you love most and to live a life that makes you happy. And apart from that, when it is about food, it is even better. xo
Thank you Annton, I am very happy to share my love for food and feeling that it’s appreciated is the best reward. I hope you have the time to try out some of the recipes 🙂 Mimi x
Dear Mimi, thank you for this new post, for being what you are and bringing joy all over your readers and giving your chidren a beautiful childhood, which is the best gift a mother can give!
I also made the choice to work part time or not at some periods of my life to be here and watch them grow, what a wise choice and a full life! and a luxury… Bravo!
Love this last post, soo sorry to have missed this Saint Christoly fête being so close in Arcahon… Love these recipes. Sharing your life with us conforts me in my own life choices! Love your white dress. Keep on going like this even if it is not the most popular choice here in France… but your world is far wider… Cécile xx
PS Audrey May is such a beauty… Make me feel like, why not a 5th one?
When I say the title of your post I immediately thought of Jacques Tatti in the film “Jour de Fete”. One of the funniest films I have ever seen !
I have made several of your excellent recipes, and enjoyed them all; but I enjoy reading your blog best of all. Thank you, it makes an old man very happy.
Hi Keith, You are right, the title came from that film, I love it too, so funny. I am so glad that the blog and recipes make you happy, that’s what they’re there for 🙂 Mimi x
Bonjour Mimi!
Thank you for another wonderful and timely post. We inevitably question our choices from time to time, such is human nature. I left a marketing job at P&G to become a cabin crew and see the world, though it was a decision très mal vue par mes parents et les gens autour de moi. Add to that leaving a bank which I later joined, to marry and uproot to Paris made me go through again the process of making difficult life choices!
But in the end, i think we make choices which we deem to be worthy at the time of decision.
And honestly, between writing a cookbook, hosting a TV show, taking care of a family and home and now, des ateliers and des chambres d’hote, your life is full of passion and achievements you can be proud of, and which few even accomplish in their lifetime! So… CHAPEAU! 🙂
J’espère trouver aussi ma propre voie en France:)
À bientôt Mimi!
Jasmine
Sorry for the long post, but I felt very compelled to respond. Mimi, everyone else has said it and they are dead on. That Instagram comment came from a place of pure envy. I’ve had it happen to me as well…in person by a very bitter woman, while I was a guest in her home no less! Like you, I’ve done the hustle and bustle bit. I’m ex-Enron and I loved my job. I loved the corporate life, but I was single and I worked 12 hour days. It was my life. After the company fell on its face, it forced me to re-define my priorities. I decided I wanted something that was for me. I had met my now-husband and wanted time for him and his kids. I knew I didn’t want to climb the corporate ladder anymore, so I started my own business, just as you have with your blog, cookbooks, shows and workshops (add to that being a mother to seven!). Like you, I love what I do and find it personally fulfilling. I can be as busy (or not) as I’d like. I can make time for my garden, my husband, our friends and my kitchen (By the way, I’m making your Tomates farçies ‘à la Provençale’ and Potato galettes with sautéed asparagus with fresh peas tomorrow ). You’ve made a beautiful life for yourself and your family that anyone would envy. The love of what you do and your gratitude for the life you’ve created comes through so sincerely in your words. I love that you did a market stand! I also love how you write about meeting people in person. That really spoke to me. When I do trunk shows, that’s my favorite part as well. It’s a lot of work to set everything up and stand on your feet for several hours, but normally, I never meet the people who wear my work, though I feel like I have a personal connection with them through their choice to do so. Trunk shows offer me that opportunity and it means so much to me.
Lastly, while I was at Enron, I had 2 ½ hours, one on one, with my CEO as we drove from Austin to Houston. He asked me, “Amy, do you like your job?” I responded, “I truly do and I’m not just saying that because of who you are.” His response, “I have to tell you, I hate my job…absolutely hate it. I hate coming to work every single day.” and went on to tell me how little time he gets with his kids and to do what he loves (and he resigned four months later). Just goes to show, happiness isn’t at the top of the corporate ladder for everyone…even men.
Keep doing what you’re doing, Mimi. You generously share your life, family and food with us and through that, you make the world a more beautiful place. Your blog inspires me to slow down and make time for what matters.
(Have pinned the recipes from this post and can’t wait to try!)
Hi Amy, It’s so interesting to hear other people’s take on this subject, hear about their experiences. I thought the story about your CEO was quite hilarious but also illuminating. You must have been stunned sitting in that car. Talking about life’s choices and priorities, we have two teenagers, 17 & 18, who will soon have to make some choices of their own. Oddur, my husband, has been discussing these things a little bit with them and I like his approach. He always says (something like this). Think about what you are passionate about, what makes you happy – think about the day you want to have every day of your life. You wake up, you have coffee and then you go where you WANT to go. Is that place an office, a cockpit, an operating room. Is it a little store, do you want to be in the fields or the forests. Whatever you do, do it well and with pride and passion. 🙂 Mimi x
It really has been interesting. I’ve enjoyed following the comments and how nice that something negative has us all engaged in such a positive way.
Yes, the experience with the CEO was QUITE illuminating…especially when he left the company four months later and then the company fell to it’s knees the following December. Talk about hindsight being 20/20! You’re so right about choices. Said CEO is currently sitting in prison (greed took him down). I’m sure you can deduce who it was.
Oddur’s advice to your children is so spot-on. Like I said, I really did re-prioritize after the company collapsed. I work harder than I ever have now but I’m so passionate about what I do. Yes, pride and passion are everything. Isn’t the addage, “If you do what you love, you’ll never work a day in your life?” My two stepchildren are 19 & 21. Amani, the oldest, finishes university in May. I hope she can find her passion. Kyle, the younger, is about to start his second year of university studying computer science…which he’s very passionate about. I don’t think he realizes himself how much direction he has at a young age.
I’m so glad for this post because it brought me back into the conversation. I’ve been so busy that I’ve just been skimming your posts (at least the recipes if time is especially short!) but haven’t been interacting as much as before. I love your blog and it made me sad that I didn’t spend as much time reading as I’d like!
P.S. The Tomates farçies ‘à la Provençale’ were absolutely delicious Sunday evening (paired it with the potato galettes w/asparagus & peas…also delicious). We both loved them! 😀
Hello Mimi
I can’t wait to make those tians. They look delicious! I so agree with your response to the comment poster although I’d imagine such people tend not to be interested in another’s opinion really. I once had a conversation with someone who was absolutely adamant that more females should be engineers and seemed to think that being a hairdresser was the lowest of the low when it came to occupations! She had a point of course, people shouldn’t be discouraged from doing a job because of their gender. Though it’s one thing studying something and working when you don’t have children and another trying to balance motherhood with it. It doesn’t always work in more traditionally male dominated settings. Anyway, I replied that I thought people – male of female should just be encouraged to follow their hearts. Whatever is women’s liberation about if it doesn’t mean following your passions. And more so, what crazy advice to give to anyone. Who cares about filling quotas just for the sake of it. By all means be that CEO or an engineer if it pleases you. There is always a way to make it work, but how can I be less liberated if I follow my heart and study hairdressing for instance? Surely that is true freedom and power and a life well-lived in terms of all its facets. And in my clearly not very humble opinion the best advice you can give anyone wondering about careers or indeed life. Anyway, my rant is over now. Your words hit a nerve clearly! Bon weekend Mimi! You inspire as always. It’s just a bit sad that anything that isn’t overtly male dominated and seemingly powerful in that sense isn’t seen as equally worthy by some people. Just goes to prove we still live in a patriarchal society I guess. But things are changing as more and more of us insist on just following our dreams, not someone else’s. And that is where personal happiness and power does too.
“Whatever is women’s liberation about if it doesn’t mean following your passions. … Surely that is true freedom and power and a life well-lived in terms of all its facets.”
Well said, indeed, Mary. (Clearly this touched a nerve with me as well! 😉 )
I agree! One of my favourite comments I have ever read online. And I love all the support other women have given here.
I have a Pinterest board for inspirational women and you, Mimi, have been on it since day one! xx
Hello Mary, Sometimes I say to my husband “I am so glad I am a woman and not a man”. If I were reborn it would have to be as a woman – I am all woman. But I have always felt, and continue to feel that both sexes are completely equal in every way. Women, of course, have needed to fight more to have that equality acknowledged (and still do) but for me that has never meant that they needed to be like men, or “beat men at their game”. Women should play their own game, make their own rules, non? 🙂 Mimi x
Thank you for replying ladies. You’ve all made my day! I’ve loved reading the comments as well as the blog post that inspired it. You have attracted a wonderfully supportive community Mimi. I feel like we’ve been sitting around a table drinking coffee and chatting – in your lovely kitchen Mimi, naturellement 🙂 Vive la difference et l’egalite, eh! x
It’s the silver lining, Mary. Isn’t it nice to think that one snarky comment fostered such camaraderie and support?!
Dear Mimi,
I read your blog when I find time at the end of a long day in the boardrooms.
I have just had – literally 2 days ago – a second medical procedure done to deal with a second-in-a-row miscarriage. I am 38. I own a small company and work at an investment bank. Work fo me is not a choice, it’s a necessity, to not think about the fact that the things I want the most – like children and family – haven’t happened yet, and may never happen. So here’s a little yelp from the boardroom. I do not know if I am a rule or an exception, but from the bottom of my heart, you are blessed with a beautiful family and doing things you love, and the only emotion that this shall elicit is unbounded happiness that it’s still possible in this world.
Dear Maryanne, I am truly sorry to hear about your painful experiences. But I salute the way you look at life and that you can rejoice in the happiness of others, to be able to do that is not a small thing. I met my husband 10 years ago, by pure chance (or fate) and had I not things might have taken a very different turn. At 38 (incredibly young in my books) who knows what is waiting for you around the corner. Life can be so unpredictable. Whatever happens there are so many different ways of having a rewarding, meaningful and happy life and if you keep your positivity I am sure you are destined for something good. Thank you so much for your touching comment, Mimi x
Your posts continue to be something I really look forward to in my inbox. I love your writing and how it is always so positive and inspiring.
I really appreciate you addressing this person that made that comment. Women who make other women feel inadequate is why so many of us are insecure and self conscious. There are so many roads to choose in life and mine happened to be at a publishing company where I wouldn’t dare mention that I’m trying to get pregnant because of how I would be treated differently. It’s my dream to live in the country with animals and kids. My husband and I are always scheming to figure out how we could swing it.
I also live in a place (Utah) where women get degrees just to stay at home and have a lot of children. I’ve heard many people say how useless that is. I think it’s great. The search for knowledge and bettering yourself could never be useless. Neither is having children and being domestic. To each their own.
Your life is beautiful as are you. Keep up the good work. Love, Amanda
Amanda, I agree with absolutely everything you said 🙂 Mimi x
I walked away from the boardrooms of NYC to live a simpler life in France. Foolishly believing that your mark on the world can only be left via the corporate workplace is naive at best.
The ‘important’ decisions she mentions will never be credited to her in the future, the ones you make daily with your little ones will.
We all make choices based on where we are in our lives. I would bet a lot of meringues and baguettes on the odds that she will be escaping to a place far away from those boardrooms at some point in the not too distant future.
Here’s to those that have bravely faced a different path.
Talking about THAT comment I am sure it came from someone young who is lacking in life’s experiences. And yes I am pretty sure that the commentator might rethink her values at some point in her life. Youth vs experience – what would they do without each other 🙂 Mimi x
Sometimes I think you are the personification of Mother Earth, herself, when I see the love in your eyes towards your children and all those pups. Sometimes you seem like a Sprite who casts a culinary spell with a pot of stewing veal or a pile of peaches & cream. How perfect that your title “Choices, choices” appears directly under that alluring bowl topped with summer peaches. My grandmother used to say, life is short – follow your dreams. Women come in many “stripes” and Gloria Steinem fought, she said, for women to have to right to fulfill their own personal potential – no limits on where that leads us. I think it’s probably fair to say that we are, each of us, allowed to make a perfect jerk of ourselves one time, like the dopey cluck who left that instagram comment. Hopefully wisdom will be forthcoming as that person learns and grows in life. Your posts make my day a better one every time they appear. I love your photos of this outdoor festival – they capture the feeling I remember in French country towns. And wonderful recipes again ! I’m going to love making these !!
Hi Linny, Funnily enough we were just discussing this theme in the comment directly above. Of course I hold no grudges and what a silver lining and pure privilege it has been to engage in this conversation. This person, unwittingly did us all a favor. She doesn’t know it now but her stance will soften – such is life. I am so glad you liked the photos, we had a smashing time, so good in fact that we are thinking of doing it again in September. Please try the recipes, the meringues, a variation on what I’ve done before, the tian tartlets so simple and seasonal and the veal with the tomatoes worked so well that we’ve done it three times since already. As always, thanks for your comment, Mimi x
What a great post. Having choice is freedom indeed. Being happy & content is the end result we strive for no matter what title we hold. Thanks for sharing.
… and thanks for commenting, this post was such fun making, from being there that day, to writing it, cooking it all and now witnessing the overwhelmingly interesting and engaged commenting. At it’s best the internet can be quite wonderful can’t it 🙂 Mimi x
Responded to an ugly comment so gracefully! Thank you for championing the beauty of being yourself. That indeed is true freedom and I believe brings equality, not a certain job. Bravo!
I agree Kathleen, thank you 🙂 Mimi x
I love your blog and your words are incredible about choices. Keep living your dreams and your life and you will never be bored! Blessings to you and your family.
Hi Marye, One thing is for sure I don’t have time to get bored. I hope you live your dreams too 🙂 Mimi x
Chère Mimi,
J’adore ton blog. Et j’adore la France.
Je ne connais pas bien le Médoc, mais depuis que je lis ton blog, je rêve d’y aller. Alors, comme je suis seule, en Norvège, avec mes deux fistons, je mets de l’argent de côté, dans une boite à thé, et l’été prochain, j’espère pouvoire nous offrir une petite semaine dans ta belle région. Merci encore de nous faire rever, Mimi jolie<3
Mimi,
You’re my inspiration! Keep doing what makes you happy. That’s what life is all about. That commentator is just jealous they’re stuck in a boardroom instead of in the garden/kitchen surrounded by laughing children, cute doggies and delicious fragrant food.
Dear Mimi,
People who say things like that do not realize that feminism’s original goal was to allow women choice, not to shove them all into CEO positions for which, frankly, most of us are unsuited. You are making a beautiful thing of your life. Your children are a blessing from God. So many women end up unhappy and unfulfilled in careers because they have not given themselves the time to pursue the relationships with people that are the heart of life. You seek a balanced life that makes you happy, and that is what’s important. And you have left yourself open to new things rather than following a rigid, prescribed path. I admire you so much.
Mimi, I truly love your blog which is the only one I follow. Regarding the comment about women, boardrooms and cooking I see life as a garden with many different types of flowers whose beauty lies in diversity. Wouldn’t it be really boring with only one variety ? May women fill boardrooms, kitchens, gardens and wherever their passion leads them !
What a beautiful and interesting post, Mimi!!! Love what you say about being a woman today… And I note that you open a Chambres d’Hôtes : what a wonderful idea! Hope to go there on day! (live in Paris)… Congrats!!!
Bravo -well said Mimi! Exquisite and articulate post as ever.
If women will not support each other, who will? We fought for so long to have the right to choose and are still fighting the fight. Fighting for the right to decide how we want to live and to be able to make those decisions. What are we supposed to do? Subdue the desire to raise children or cook or garden because it isn’t what emancipated women are supposed to do?
Mimi, you are an inspiration, as a woman, mother, wife and lover of life. Keep doing what you do and I hope so much to attend one of your classes 🙂
Mimi, sorry for the nosy question but is your daughter Mia away somewhere? She hasn’t been in any photos for a while, so I was just wondering.
Honesty and passion ! That’s what makes this blog SO attractive. Thank you, dear Mimi:-) .
On another note, will you announce subscription for your cooking classes on your blog or should we look elsewhere to be enlisted? Merci. Your sorrel friend 🙂
Dear Mimi,
I so look forward to your blog! I was especially touched by your tielle story, my mother’s family is from Gaeta and we have tielle every Christmas, but made with squid! I forwarded your blog around to my family members for their review and we can’t wait to try it with octopus, the tomatoe coulis in the dough is also another variation. We use a pizza- type dough with currants mixed in with the squid.
As for that very aggressive comment, it made me sad. I married at 38 after many years in business. If only I had met my husband sooner! We have a lovely country life filled with food, friends, family, and little scottish terriers, but no children. I often read your postings and wish we had started earlier! You have quite an operation now, and a big exciting adventure ahead of you. I can’t wait to read all about it!
Excellent post and one of my most enjoyable blogs that I read regularly!!
Ordered your book 🙂
I especially liked your statement:
‘but let me go on record and say that even if I was the president of France I would still buy my own pastries”.
I eagerly look forward to your posts, and there is good reason I think that this one inspired so many comments. I admire and enjoy your style, creativity, and appreciation for the beauty and simple pleasures. I echo the comments of your ‘Manger’ community — you are the CEO of your life, dreams, family and businesses. And I think you manage it all with such intelligence, vision and love.
P.S. I’m not ready for meringues in my tiny NYC apt., but the tarlets, I think I can…
Dear Mimi, so many comments – it is all said. But anyway, I want to tell you that I understand you so well – this comment on Instagram possibly injures a hidden nerve in a woman like you, like me – you and I both know too well, that leading a life together with so many children consists of so many wonderful moments as well as of so many sorrowful and stormy ones. We know, as we are experiencing it every day. But then, there is a woman inside this mother and loving wife, who wants to release all the energy and commitment for poetry, passion for food and its preparation and for storytelling. Everyday’s work keeping us busy, but still there is some outer aim – some important station in our life we have to reach. And it is possible to combine both. Is it? Possible, but a lot, a lot, a lot of work!
But still, Mimi: The most important is the raising of our children (may the others say what they want) – time flies.
I am with you and would love to have the possibility to visit you one day. Lots of love and god’s blessings to you and to your whole family!
Yushka
Her CEO comment was a stinging nettle. Coincidentally, I read a riposte in Pirouette Blog earlier this week to some pretty negative press in the UK about parenting: http://www.pirouetteblog.com/mood-of-the-day/parenting-default-vs-parenting-design/ Your entry made me think of it. I am perplexed by why some people feel they have to elevate their own choices over others’. Women “should be” anywhere they want to be.
You are an inspiration. We all need to be true to ourselves. Others may mock, but a life well lived and loved will always prevail. I am looking forward to our 3rd trip to France and a chance to meet you and your lovely family.
I am a 44 year old woman who chose not to have children because I believe there are already too many, and I was too busy traveling the world as a Military Police Officer in the Marines, and currently am a career woman in a field where there are not many women. I am proud to say I am a feminist. I am also very feminine and love to cook and decorate and keep a beautiful home and nurture my man and my pets. The art of the home and raising children is sacred. You have a beautiful life and I enjoy being able to share in it and live vicariously through others who have different lifestyles than my own. That ignorant comment strikes a nerve in me also. I am sorry someone would say that!
Mimi….so loved your blog this week. The serenity in your soul comes through in your beautiful writing and your love of preparing beautiful food.
I have never seen a woman emerge from a boardroom with the look of peace and serenity I see on your face. Thank you for letting us be part of your world.
Hello Mimi,
Love your post as always. This post really touched my heart. I am the CEO of my company. I go to many meetings and I travel alot- I have a important job- but I also love to have choices. I love to cook, I love to go to markets and by pastries, I love to garden, I love to shop for old dishes. I admire and embrace all women because women regardless of position shape the world. My mother stayed at home and raised six children and believe me she was a powerful woman with a incredible business sense. I am here – my being is because of her. Mimi, I look forward to everyone of your posts. It enriches my soul -trust me you are powerful. Your words touch people all over the world and I am so grateful that you are here.
I have enjoyed your blog since i first stumbled upon it by accident. As a francophile, the arrival of each post gives me a frisson of pleasure. The photographs and the recipes are treasures. I feel that i’m in the country with you, in the market and in the shops.You engage all of my senses. Mouth watering.
As a practicing pediatrician whose days are filled with mothers, fathers and their children,today’s post struck a nerve. The challenges that parents face today with work and their children, are enormous. For women to still be singled out for having made the choice to stay home over trying to puncture the glass ceiling of the boardroom, is patently absurd. Instead of knocking someone down for their choice, celebrate what they are able to do with whatever combination makes sense to them…and if that yields a happy home with parents and children who are well nourished both physically and emotionally, it’s a win-win for everyone.
Ultimately, the goal is to keep the entire family on track, and to that end, i dispense travel advice and recipes too. To me all of that is part of the “good life” we should strive for.
I totally ageee with you about women having a choice to be who they are. It is said how feminism and modernism have driven women to lose the femininity all together. I also worked hard in the past to prove myself to men, having pressured by western ideas about gender equality, which only resulted in a tragic breakup. I work and I get grump.
Now I am happier living in a society where being girly isn’t frowned upon.
I was hugely encouraged by Salty Seattle before you came along. The woman had many blackmails from haters, which she shared with readers. Your story reminded me of her.
I wish I could have many kids and just indulge in the simple beauty of life. You are one lucky woman. Congrats!
Wonderful post Mimi! Makes me crave a summer fete in a village. In regards to that comment, yes women should be CEO’s in the boardroom but they should also be amazing cooks and mothers like yourself, and they can be both too at the same time. The brilliance of feminism is it gives women the choice to choose what they want to do, whenever they want. Not that long ago women didn’t have this freedom and we should be so grateful that we have the freedom of choice.
May I also ask where you got your beautiful dress from that you’re wearing? I love your style and the way you dress your children too.
I have fallen so in love with your writing, recipes, and gorgeous photography! Those tartlets look like they’re to die for….
Mimi, I love everything about you. So glad you took the road to happiness for you. We all benefit from you and your love and recipes. Thank you! I wish I could of been there. If I was I would of been happy with your meringues and a bottle of wine. Your new baby looks adorable and like your other girls beautiful like you. xo Patti
Lovely Mimi,
I want you to know how much I look forward to, enjoy, and learn from your blog postings. They are not only uniquely designed and presented, but also descriptive in a sophisticated, yet
unpretentious way. Our creative gifts are given for our own pleasure and to share with others. Yours are beautifully manifested. Being a present, committed, loving parent to her children guiding them to be responsible, honest citizens of the world respectful of others is the most important action a human can do with their life. The impact parenting has on our child or children ends up impacting many thousands of people they come in contact with in their lifetime far more then running a business with the sole purpose being to make money and build ones ego. You clearly have not bought into the secular money ego driven values that many people have. Enjoy and celebrate the life you and your husband have created.
Happiness is being content with what you have, and enjoying your journey thru life. To bad power and money hungry CEO’s never are content, always wanting more, except making their own pastries.
My husband has enjoyed many of your recipes that I have tried. I travel in my mind after seeing your great photographs.Joy and continued blessings to your family.
Charlene
I also had to comment (for the first time) after having read your blog for a couple of years. I can add to all the previous comment! Even as a young feminist, not being sure if I want children at all (27 and single), recently graduated with big ambitions, from time to time I dream of a life like this! So far I’ve been travelling a lot, learning languages, meeting many interesting people, and I am more and more getting the feeling that the “big plans” are not that important, see where life takes you! I’ve been thinking of a career in the diplomacy and friends (who know how I love to cook) are telling me “you know you won’t have any time for cooking, you will maybe even have your own chef” – well, I hope whatever I do I’ll always take time to do things like these! Keep on! Hope to visit someday! (and as a Norwegian who lived in France I was always amazed with, and miss, the food culture, the markets etc) – Enjoy it and keep making these inspiring posts! Bisous
Bravo Mimi!!
Hope that remarks about CEO will further encourage you to continue doing what you do BEST! Absolutely right, the most important thing is to have a Choice.
I share your sentiments and your love of cooking. Hope to visit and attend one of your classes next year. Merci.
Dear Mimi,
Thank you for addressing the fact that “it is not really the message, it is how it’s delivered”.
While I suppose that everyone is entitled to an opinion, I think that the individual who commented must long for such an echanting life such as yours.
Thank you for living so beautifully, you inspire the best that is in me and in others.
Your blog has created a sacred realm for myself and reminds me of what is truly important.
Thank You. Thank You. Thank You.